2010 recap

The best of 2010: 

January – Family trip to Las Vegas.  I am one of the few [young] people who have been to Vegas and yet have never stepped into a bar or club over there.  Even my husband who doesn’t dance and drinks very little has been inside one of those places.  #manangkasiako 

February – Annual Cioppino night at St. Thomas More School.  I am already looking forward to this tradition that me and my friends have.  2011 should be even better because Paul can finally join us and see what this night is all about! 

March – Paul’s birthday!  We had little celebration at home for his 33rd birthday.  Isaw party!!!!! 

April – Washington, D.C.  Paul and I have never been back since we first went there in 2005.  5 years later, with Michelle in tow, we headed east to visit Paul’s side of the family.  It was great to see them again and for Michelle to meet her cousins.   

May – Our trip to Maui for my 30th birthday!  Oh what a vacation!  I loved it and can’t wait to go back again in 2011! 

June – Paul comes back to the bay FOR GOOD!  After 2 ½ years of flying back and forth from Portland to the Bay Area, my husband now comes home every night and has dinner with us.  We do errands together and disagree a lot more (hehehe) but that’s what married life is all about!  I love it! 

July – Michelle enters pre-school.  Her first day was flawless…no crying, no tantrums.  Michelle thrived when she started going to schools.  She knows her letters and can write her name…and her name is the only word she can read right now. Hehehe but that will change soon.  The school’s director told me they’re moving her to a different class beginning January because Michelle is ready and needs to be challenged a little more.  we also renovated our kitchen this month.  the two week project (according to the contractor) turned to 4 weeks.  in the end, I'm happy with my kitchen (dapat lang!).  my aunt, uncle, and niece from the philippines also visited this month and I saw joy, gelsey and gave in oxnard.  it was a very busy month.  =) 

August – My Ate Anna Dayag left this world on July 31st and we said our final goodbye to her in August.  I miss the sound of her voice and her infectious laughter.   

September – Paul and I celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary and Michelle turned 4!  Ang bilis talaga ng panahon!   

October – Philippines – it was so nice to be back to see friends and family.  If only we could stay there longer.  Michelle had a blast and adjusted very well to the new environment.  She bonded with her cousins and enjoyed the beach in Boracay.   

November – Driving through snow and ice.  I have never seen so much snow in my life when we went to Tahoe the day after Thanksgiving.  I was so out of my element because I like the beach more than I like snow.  But it was a good experience for me (although a little bit nerve racking).  Ski lessons are in the works for when we visit the area again in January with my cousins.   I also saw Harry Potter during our company's advanced screening.  that was a great treat!

December – I just love the holidays so much!  We went to the symphony, cooked and ate a lot and went to countless holiday celebrations.  We’re going to Tahoe again in a couple of days.  December is/was a great ending to a great year! 

Thank you, Lord for 2010.  I know you have prepared 2011 to exceed all that was in the past.  2011 shall be the year of restoration, promotion, and abundance.  Thank you, Jesus!

michelle opens her christmas presents

Ballet and Hula Hoop

while waiting for christmas eve dinner, michelle entertains herself this way...

Michelle covers the Beatles

she's not perfect after all

'train up a child in the way she should go, even when she is old, she will not depart from it' - proverbs 22:6

 michelle has always been an easy child.  she listens to what we say, she's not super likot, follows what we say, she's very understanding and very well behaved.  she's never thrown a tantrum.  that is, until tonight.  

she threw a hissy fit we never saw coming.  it caught me off guard and broke my heart into so many million pieces.  *sigh*

but we've made peace now.  and again everything seems perfect.  but tonight, she reminded me that no matter how much i try to make her perfect, she will never be and she will make many more mistakes.  this may be the first tantrum she's thrown in her 4 short years, but it's definitely not the last.  all i can really do is train her in the way she should go so when moments like tonight happen, she'll know how to find her way back and get on the right path again. 

 oh how much i love her. 

(i am ever so thankful she doesn't throw tantrums left and right.  i'd like to think of it as a learning experience for the both of us.)

sf symphony presents...

last year, we saw the nutcracker on christmas eve.  this year for the holidays, we went to the san francisco symphony last night to watch the snowman with the sf symphony orchestra as musical accompaniment.  ganda!  michelle enjoyed the short film and the festive music.  towards the end of the performance, the orchestra played some of the most popular and well-loved christmas carols and the audience all sang along as they played.  christmas is such a joyous event.  =)

the sf symphony orchestra did a wonderful job.  paul and i hope to watch more of their performances in the future.  

here are some pics from our family date:

a very snowy lake tahoe trip

the day after thanksgiving, paul, michelle and i went to south lake tahoe to enjoy some early snow.  winter came early in this part of the world and the sierra mountains saw snow as early as the 2nd week of november.  

when we headed up to the mountains on friday, the sun was shining brightly.  the snow looked so pretty as it glistened under the sun!

after we checked in at the hotel, we rushed to get to the nearest snow park so we can go sledding.  at this time of the year, it starts to get dark at 5 pm.  we reached the snow park at 4 pm and didn't have cash to pay the snow park to go sledding.  after running to the nearest atm to get cash, it was already 4:15.  the good thing about being late is that we were only charged $10 to go sledding instead of $30 (it's normally $10/person).  

now, i am scared of heights and the feeling like i'm going to fall out of control.  even the feeling when you slide down a playground slide, i don't like that.  but that's exactly what sledding is.  sliding on snow while seated on a sled.  yes, my heart raced as we swooooshed through the slippery snow but it was so much fun! 

 

we had dinner at applebee's afterwards and then relaxed at our hotel.

now, look back up to pictures number 1 and 2 and see how clear and sunny it is.  the next day, right outside our hotel, it looked like this:

and we drove through this...

which made me feel like this...

early on saturday morning, i was silently praying paul would just say, 'i'm not gonna go snowboarding nalang.  let's just head home...this weather is horrible.'  pero wala akong super powers!  we went to the ski resort and paul snowboarded for only 1.5 hours.   michelle was soooo bored!  the ski class we wanted to take started at 1 pm and we got to the resort at 1:30 so we couldn't take the class so michelle and i decided to just go sledding.  as we walked to the sledding area of the resort, i asked for directions only to be told that sledding is closed kasi nga matindi ang snow.  bigo!  so we headed to the lodge to beat the cold.  buti nalang one of my friends from way back was there (small world) and we hung out and tried to entertain michelle.  at around 3, paul found us and said the words i had hoped he would say 6 hours earlier.

we lost one of our tire chains and had to buy a new pair.  fortunately, the folks at the resort helped us install the 2nd pair.  it took us 2 hours to drive a distance of 30 miles.  the drive that would normally take us 3.5 to 4 hours took 6.  but we made it home safe. =)

it will take some time for me to get used to the snow.  i still like beach vacations the best.  i do not like dressing in so many layers.  it's a whole production to get michelle in and out of her clothes just to make sure she is seated in the toilet in time! but i am looking forward to another ski trip next month, this time for a whole weekend instead of just overnight.  and this time, my cousins are coming so mas masaya and we will make sure michelle and i get to ski class before it starts!!!

harry potter

ok, medyo delayed na to...pero i'll try to recap the things that happened since we got back from pi. 

harry potter 7 part 1 - i work for a BIG company na maraming mayamang kliyente.   as a thanksgiving treat to the clients, we hosted an advance screening of harry potter in union city 1 day before its worldwide release.  i was not a fan of the harry potter movies or books.  i just never got into it.  but to prepare for this screening, i called the biggest hp fan i know and borrowed her dvds.  i had 1 week to watch all the earlier movies and i was quite surprised i found all of them very interesting and very entertaining.  that j.k. rowling has some wonderful imagination!  at the screening, we could take whatever we wanted from the concession stand.  all the popcorn you want, ice cream, nachos, candy.  parang fiesta!  after the movie, there were goody bags waiting for us as we walked out of the cinema.  scarves, wands, and harry potter glasses. wow!  it was such a well received event.  we've gotten so many 'thank yous' from the clients (well, their kids actually) saying how special they felt because they got to see the movie before everyone else did and how special they all felt! 

a few days after the movie, as i was reading facebook updates from friends all over the world, one particular comment about harry potter cracked me up.  my friend said, 'watched harry potter 7 today!' or something to that effect.  and the comment from my friend's friend was this, 'maganda sana yung movie...kaso i didn't like the ending!'  i cracked up when i read that!  maraming sarcastic comments pumasok sa isip ko pero syempre di ko nilagay.  sinabi ko nalang kay paul. hihi!  i'm looking forward to part 2!

boracay

we went to boracay during our vacation in the philippines.  i have been to a several beaches in different parts of the world, and i have yet to find a beach with sand more beautiful than boracay's.  

i've been to boracay with my friends before and this is my family's first time.  everyone had a good time.  

 

 waiting for the flight to kalibo

 ati-atihan

 the beach

 relaxing at astoria boracay

 

relaxing by the beach

 polvoron from boracay!

 this is as deep as my mom will ever get in the water

 

hotel review:

the good - astoria boracay is nice and new.  the facilities  are really beautiful.  the pool is very small but real estate in boracay is expensive so resorts would rather use the space for rooms instead of a bigger pool.  the manager seems really nice.  mas nauuna pa sya bumati sa guests kesa sa sariling nyang staff. 

the bad - the layout is very poor.  i think the architect or designer went for form instead of function.  i didn't like the lobby/dining room combo.  it's so weird to walk into the space after spending time at the beach, all covered in sand while other guests are enjoying their meal in the dining room.  there's too much traffic in one confined space. service is ok, staff could use more training and improve their customer service skills.  for the price that i paid for, i expected to have conditioner in my room.  it's the little details that takes a hotel from being good to great.  would i stay there again?  unless prices are dirt cheap, not really.  just being honest.  i want the hotel to do well but i wasn't blown away by anything. 

food:  i don't remember where we ate.  nothing really stood out but none of them where bad.  meals are very expensive...everything is expensive in boracay.  we were at d' mall looking for beach toys for the kids.  one store said P250 daw, another said P380, pareho walang tawad.  konting lakad pa at nakita namin ang palengke and a similar toy goes for only P150.  sold!  so magpunta kayo sa palengke at doon bumili ng supplies na kakailanganin nyo like water and snacks, you'll get it for half the price. 

while the sand in boracay is perfect.  it bothers me that it is so commercialized.  it's very different from my first trip back in 2004.  i had a better time in coron, bohol, and maui.  i like beaches that do not have too many people.  siguro if we stayed at shangri-la, my opinion would be different.  but we can't afford to pay for 12 people to stay at shangri-la boracay.  not now at least, sana someday we can!  =D

before boracay

ano ba ginawa namin before boracay?

oh, nag karaoke kami ng mga pinsan ko that friday night!  lahat pala kami mahilig kumanta.  =)  sayang lang at di lahat nakasama.  oh well!  there's always next year!  (parang uuwi talaga kami next year e no?)

saturday/sunday, we went to laguna to spend time with paul's family.  nag rent kami ng private pool and we spent the night there.  masaya naman.  di masyado mainit, kaya di masyado umitim and the pool is fresh and clean (they replace the water for each guest at the resort.  mura ang tubig sa laguna).  

michelle spent most of her waking moments in laguna in the water.  that's where she built her confidence and relied on her floaty thing.  she was kicking all over the pool.  malapit na mabuild confidence nito for a full on swimming class (next summer perhaps).

monday naman, i went to dinner with my friends from high school.  nagpunta kami ng tagaytay and ate at buon giorno.  ang cute ni raja!  mabait na bata din.  mukhang nagkasundo naman sila ni michelle.  after dinner, we went to starbucks for some coffee/tea hanggang sa mag aya na umuwi si michelle.  how i miss these guys.  sana nandun din si lizette at imee...pati si crisanto, si ryan reyes, at si gamban.  again, sana next year!  =D

tuesday....boracay na!  separate entry to.  highlight e!

manila: the rest of the first week

our plane landed at sfo several hours ago.  i fell asleep on the plane so i am still wide awake at 1 am.  michelle, who slept the entire flight is catching up on nick jr.  paul is fast asleep...my mom is going to try to fall asleep but i already know she's not gonna have much success.  =)

recap of what happend in the philippines after the last blog update:

oct. 18:  we had dinner at chelsea market @ serendra will paul's friends from sykes.  nagkanda ligaw ligaw kami kakahanap ng serendra.  feeling namin sa kabilang ibayo pa yun ng market market, katabing katabi lang pala.  mas matagal pa yung paikot ikot namin kesa yung drive from the marriott to the fort. 

nasa serendra kami habang bumabagyo.  buti nalang signal number 1 lang sa manila kaya there were several breaks in the weather and we didn't have to drive through much of the storm. 

masaya rin kasama ang friends ni paul. since friends ni paul yun, sila ang laging bangka.  taga pakinig lang ako hehehe.  =)  the food was good too and the restaurant was nice.  sayang lang di namin na explore ang area na yon.

oct. 19:  i told my mom to visit us at the hotel since wala naman syang gagawin sa bahay.  we had lunch at the red crab at resorts world.  wow!  sarap ng thai chili crab and seafood bicol express!  ang dami namin nakain so natural, marami rin ang ibinayad namin.  hehehe

after lunch dumating na si jean at si leah at nagsimula na ang mega kwentuhan.kung hindi lang kailangang umuwi nung dalawa, we would have talked all night!  nagsimula ang chikahan namin mga 130 or 2 pm.  hanggang sa umalis sila ng 930, hindi parin kami tumitigil kakadaldal.  binili lang kami ni paul ng pagkain sa mcdo dahil hindi talaga kami tumatayo sa inupan namin sa dami ng kwentuhang naganap!  si leah, simula nung grade 4 kami, hanggang ngayon, wala parin pinagbago.  ngingiti lang, tatawa ng konti, susundot ng konti sa kwentuhan.  sayang sana nandun din si mm, krisna at jaymie.  nasan ka na ba jaymie olaes??????  magparamdam ka sana!

oct. 20:  wedding na ni jenny at ian.  we checked out of the marriott and went to trader's hotel across from ccp where the wedding reception was going to be held.  nagpahair and make up narin ako kahit na di ako kasali sa wedding.  sayang naman ang ibinyahe ko ng pagkalayo layo kung mukha lang akong yaya ng anak ko di ba?  =)  aling lita and her team who did my hair and make up at my wedding was the person we contacted to do our hair and make up again this time.  they do a really good job and i am once again happy with their work.  if you need a make up artist na affordable, just let me know and i'll give you her number!  =)

the wedding was beautiful.  jenny was a beautiful bride and i am so happy that she found a wonderful husband in ian.  michelle was feeling slightly under the weather the whole day and by evening, nilalagnat na sya.  we called it a night and went back to our hotel room to rest. 

oct. 21: we went to greenbelt 5 just to see what it looks like and we had a late lunch at banana leaf at greenbelt 3.  dumaan kami sa landmark and i went crazy over the affordable christmas decor so namili na ako ng pangdecorate sa christmas tree dito sa bahay.  (looking forward to putting up the tree tomorrow!)

in the evening, we went to alabang to meet with maan and abbie, paul's friends from intel.  sayang kasi yung ibang mga friends ni paul na taga intel, nasa iba't ibang bansa na.  naiwan nalang tong 2 beauties na ito kaya sila nalang ang nakasama namin.  we had dinner at cpk and continued the chikahan at starbucks.  habang nasa starbucks, napansin ko na nawala ang bato ng engagement ring ko!  hindi naman ako masyado kinabahan (mas kinabahan siguro si paul!)  i didn't know where it fell off. sa ganong sitwasyon, ayoko magpanic. sinasabi ko nalang sa sarili ko, bagay lang yun at napapalitan.  di ko nga lang alam kung kelan sya mapapalitan kung mawawala nga talaga ang bato ng singsing na yun kung sakali, pero mapapalitan din yun! humihirit na tuloy ako kay paul na alam nya na kung anong christmas gift ang gusto ko...bagong diamond ring! 

when we got back to the hotel, i emptied the contents of my purse, one by one...and found the diamond!  sayang!  hindi mapapaaga yung kapalit...i'm sure my husband breathed a sigh of relief!

manila: the first few days

we're home!


Well, our other home. To be honest, the philippines no longer feels 100% like home which isn't a good or bad thing. it's nice to be able to identify with multiple places especially in this day and age...the world is flat, di ba?  =)


Michelle has adjusted quickly to everything around her. She's been to the wet market (palengke) and ridden the tricycle and pedicab. She's questioned the absence of toilet paper from public restrooms and refuses to go potty without my reassurance that i have a roll of TP in my purse at her disposal.  flies still freak her out (kahit sa san francisco, takot sya sa langaw) and she's having a blast stomping at ants around the sidewalks (pag nakagat ng langgam ito, siguradong madadala!) 


we spent our first day with my family and she's really bonded with her ate gela who is just a year older than her.  yesterday, we spent time with paul's family. since her cousins are older, she hasn't made quite the same connection but she was thrilled to see her tito jon's african love birds (he has like 20 of them) and she got to hold a baby bird and saw eggs that are just beginning to hatch.  kuya jon had a more interesting pet, an albino python, but we skipped that one.  we're here for a vacation, we're not here to freak our selves out.  =)


we're staying at the marriott in manila for a few days (thanks to my marriott points, i'm hardly paying for the stay) and i'm impressed with their service and facilities.  maganda!  and the casino/mall right next door will remind you of the hotel/casinos on the las vegas strip.  


most of money has been spent on food.  paul and i noticed food is more expensive now.  in an effort na makatipid dahil parang ang mahal ng last several meals namin, paul and i decided to just eat at sm sucat's food court.  natuwa kami kasi our lunch would only cost P200!  that's $5 for the 3 of us!  after michelle's first bite, she refused to eat any more.  after my first bite, i looked at paul...after his first bite, he looked at me and took a big gulp of his sprite...he looked at me again and said, 'sprite ba 'to o tubig?'  we pushed the food away and tried to find the nearest jollibee.  jollibee has changed as well. di namin alam if it was just that branch or the whole organization has changed.  =(  after our lunch disaster, paul and i agreed na wag na magkuripot pagdating sa pagkain.  kakain kami kung san namin gusto kumain basta reasonable naman ang presyo at hindi presyong ginto.  


by the time we got to our car, i was exhausted.  lunch lang, nastress na kami.  nakakastress pala yung gutom na gutom ka tapos hindi mo makain yung pagkaing nasa harap mo. 


tonight, we're meeting paul's friends from sykes and tomorrow i spend time with my gamols.  =)


  

coming home again

it has been almost 4 years since i last went home to the philippines. the last time we were there was for our church wedding celebration. Michelle was 5 months old then and i can remember how uncomfortable she was on her very first day there. She cried all day due to heat and the new unfamiliar environment. Now that she's 4, i have a feeling adjustment will come easier and she'll have a blast.

We are coming home for my kinakapatid's wedding and michelle is going to be the flower girl. Excited na sya magsuot ulit ng gown!

Ako naman excited nang bumalik ng boracay! =)

happy anniversary beb!

on sept. 21st, paul and i celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary.  we opted for a simple dinner at house of prime rib and was impressed by the service and the food.  it's not gary danko of course, but h.o.p.r. sure hit the spot.  i think it's a must for anyone who visits san francisco.  =)

 green apple martini

(note to self: you don't like green apple martini, never order it again)

  

prime rib carved right at your table

city cut prime rib, medium well with mashed potato and cream spinach

(sarap)

i love you beb!  happy anniversary again!

nasabi ko na sa kanya lahat ng mushy-ness during dinner, so no need to write it here.  =D 

hospitality

filipinos are proud of their hospitality.  having lived here in the states for almost 13 years now, that hospitality has not disappeared.  we always have friends and family visiting from all over the world and we do our best to make them feel welcome and comfortable whenever we spend time with them.  sometimes, i would take a day or two off from work just to take them around town...or if i can't do that, i'll leave the office early just so that i can spend time with them. 

but maybe that's just me.  because apparently, not everyone seems to remember what being hospitable is all about.
 

michelle's first book

Illustration and story by  Michelle.  Hand-writing by Mommy.